you don't want to grow white hairs before
you get married, here are the things you need
to do to attract your man and get married on
time:
1. SMILE: Men love smiling women. No, not
the one that begins and ends with the mouth,
the one that starts from the eyes. Genuine,
loving smile attracts people, creates friendship
and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people
baby, women who lack men's attention rarely
smile. They are always cold and look as if
they are carrying the problem of the whole
world on their head! Some of these ladies even
frown a lot! Look, everybody has a problem,
no man wants to add another person's
problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy
person and show it by smiling at people. Men
will find you irresistible and seek to know you
more.
2. BE HUMBLE: Humble women don't lack
suitors! One way to stay single for a long long
time is to be proud and cocky! Proud women
are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes
at people, segregate yourself from the
company of common people, talk down on
anybody and you are practically rude because
of your class, money, car, social status, job,
etc, you will stay single forever! Be humble!
Learn to accommodate all class for people.
Learn to serve others. Learn to use "sir" when
talking to men. Some men may tell you it
doesn't matter but secretly, they love it. Men
love it when women address them with
respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive
to authorities.
3. BE CONFIDENT: Confident women are
attractive any day any time. Knowing who you
are, pursuing your dreams, vision, passion and
goals makes you a confident person worth
investing in. When you know your reason for
being here on earth is far more than getting
married, punch out few kids and stay locked in
the kitchen forever, you approach life with a
positive mind set, you are energetic and
confident in who you are, you have a good,
sound self esteem and men are irresistibly
drawn to you.
4. BE FRIENDLY: Ladies who keep to
themselves hoping some Prince Charming will
find them are not ready for marriage. Be
friendly! Being friendly is different from being
desperate and cheap. Go out. Attend positive
programmes, conferences, seminars,
workshops, symposiums and serve in your
local church. Enjoy meeting people and
getting to know them purely for friendship not
for marriage. A man can smell it a million
mikes away if you are desperate and chasing
him. Just be yourself. If you are just being
friendly and he thinks you are cheap, that's
his headache! Don't let that stop you from
being friendly to people. Smile a lot, meet
people and be a happy person to have around.
5. BE GENEROUS: Stingy women who can't
part with anything don't know what marriage
is about. Be generous to people. Be generous
with what you have. Be generous with your
smile, your love, your talent, your service, your Dorris Wedding semi formal occasion outfits for juniors teenager
money, your prayers, whatever you've got that
can bless lives. Generous women are men
attractors, they never lack admirers.
6. BE FORGIVING: Forgive all your EX, forgive
the guy who abused you or rape you, forgive
all who disappointed you in the past. Practice
advance forgiveness, forgive people before
they hurt you, more people will offend you. If
you find it difficult forgiving people, you will
grow bitter and people will move away from
you especially men. Release the man who
promised you marriage but disappointed you
and married someone else. Actually, you were
not meant to be. If you had married him, you
may have been divorced or dead! Thank God
for it and move on. If you don't release that
man you may never find any man to marry!
Men will unconsciously move away from you
and you will be singe and miserable for the
rest of your life!
7. BE INTELLIGENT: Men like intelligent
women. Know when, how and where to talk.
Don't be a dummy upstairs. Know what is
going on around you. You shouldn't be a
naive, empty-brained, beauty queen. Your face
may get you into the marriage, your brain will
determine how long you last. A man likes a
woman who can give intelligent answers to
questions and contribute meaningfully to
discussions. If he asks you, "Why is Nigeria in
the mess we are in?" And you scratched your
head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger
and say, "I don't know" Your brain needs
revival!
8. BE NEAT: Dirty ladies are not good
marriage candidates. Some ladies look great
outside but if you see where they step out,
you will remember world war 2! Very dirty,
disorganized and rough to say the least! No
sane man wants to marry a dirty woman.
Learn to be neat. Take good care of your
underwear, learn to shave. Keep off the body
and mouth odour. Deal with the eczema and
pimples, do your hair on time or comb it well.
Always appear neat and presentable.
9. LEARN HOW TO DRESS WELL: Wear
something that fits you, not what is in vogue.
Get a good tailor who can sew clothes that
fits your body shape. Learn about your body
shape and wear something that flatters your
figure. Straight ladies need clothes that
flatters the waist line. There are some clothes
good on hourglass not good on pear, apple
shapes will look great in shirts and suits,
pears will look great in gowns etc. I'm not
saying you can't wear different kinds of
clothes, just wear the ones that fit you. They
make you sweet to look at and simply
irresistible!
10. LOVE YOURSELF: You can't love others if
you don't love yourself. Celebrate yourself.
Accept yourself the way you are, you are
simply the best. Don't envy anybody. Not
everyone's got what you've got, celebrate your
uniqueness. Men love ladies who love
themselves. Don't envy someone else's looks,
love what you have. Don't wish you have a
fuller chest, heavy bum, sexy nose or longer
hair. The man God created for you needs
someone exactly like you and will fall in love
with you just the way you are so chill and
appreciate God.
11. BE GODLY: Godly women carry God and
carry gold. Men find you irresistible.
12. BUILD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH
YOUR DAD AND SIBLINGS: It tells a man how
you will treat him in marriage.
13. BE FEMININE: Some women have
masculine nature: the "Tomboys"! And there
are men who love tomboys, honestly! Not with
standing, learn how to sit like a lady and talk
like a lady! It's "un woman" to sit with your
laps thrown apart, you belch loudly after
gulping a bottle of malt and barge in and out
of a house like a soldier! Even soldiers are
regal in their steps! Stop giving men the
impression that they want to marry a man! Be
ladylike! Learn it if it is not natural with you.
14: BE HARDWORKING: No man wants to
marry a lazy, indolent, passive, idle, backward,
sleeping, purposeless and visionless woman!
You will attract your kind! If you want a
hardworking man, be hardworking, up and
doing, agile, proactive, versatile, business
minded, creative and industrious. Learn how
to make money and have an active bank
account!
15: READ BOOKS: Ladies who read instead of
jumping from house to house gossiping about
nothing in particular don't lack good suitors.
Read godly books that will bless your life and
make you a testimony to others. My husband
was attracted to me because I was a
voracious reader. John Mason brought us
together.
16: GODLY ASSOCIATIONS: Some women will
never marry until they change their friends. If
you want to marry fast, you will need to let go
of your unserious friends who enjoy clubbing
and get close to married women with beautiful
marriages whom you can learn from!
These and more are the things you need to do
to get a godly suitor and marry gloriously.
You still need to pray though, some delay are
spiritual in nature. No matter what you do,
you may never get a man to marry if you don't
break some yokes through earth shaking
prayers and violent application of the word.
You should practice all these if you want to
get married on time and also get in the word,
pray against delay and deal with every
stronghold and spiritual pro